CLASSIFICATION (Personality Disorders)

These behavioral patterns in personality disorders are typically associated with substantial disturbances in some behavioral tendencies of an individual, usually involving several areas of the personality, and are nearly always associated with considerable personal and social disruption. A person is classified as having a personal disorder if their abnormalities of behavior impair their social or occupational functioning. Additionally, personality disorders are inflexible and pervasive across many situations, due in large part to the fact that such behavioral may be ego-syn tonic, and are therefore, perceived to be appreciate by the individual. This behavior can result in maladaptive coping skills, which may lead to personal  problems that induce extreme anxiety, distress or depression. These patterns of behavior typically are recognized in adolescence and the beginning of adulthood and in some unusual.



A defensive mechanism that allows people who aren’t comfortable being openly aggressive get what they want under the guise of still trying to please others. They want their way , but they also want everyone to still like them.


Jane: It’s time to go, we really should get going now.

*Passive Aggressive* Ann: Oh……Okay, I just.. well okay, I guess we can leave now.

Jane: Ann, do you want to stay? Is that what you’re to get at? .

*Passive Aggressive* Ann: Huh? Oh no, we can leave if you want, I just didn’t get to do everything I wanted to do yet, but no no , we can go I guess.

Jane: God dammit Ann! Fine, we’ll stay, are you happy?

*Passive Aggressive* Ann: Oh Okay! Yeah! That sounds great too!.

( Ann got her way without having to openly ask for it )



Characterized by a pattern of excessive attention-seeking emotions, usually beginning in early adulthood, including inappropriately seductive behavior and an excessive need for approval. Hysterical people are lively,dramatic,vivacious,enthusiastic and flirtatious. People with Hysterical Personality Disorder have a high need of attention make loud and inappropriate appearance, exaggerated their behaviors and emotions, and crave stimulation. They may exhibit sexually provocative behavior , express strong emotions with an impressionistic style, and can be easily influenced by others. Associated features include ego centrism, self-indulgence , continuous longing for appreciation, and persistent manipulative behavior to achieve their own needs.


  • Pride of own personality and unwillingness to change, viewing any change as a threat.
  • Rapidly shifting emotional states that may appear superficial or exaggerated to others.
  • Tendency to believe that relationships are more intimate than they usually are.



They are prone to become upset or angry in situations in which they are not able to maintain control of their personal or interpersonal environment, although the anger is typically not expressed directly.


  • A person may be angry when service in a restaurant is poor, but instead of complaining to the management, the individual ruminates about how much to leave as a tip. On other occasions, anger may be expressed with righteous indignation over a seemingly minor matter.


Is a class of functional mental disorders involving distress but neither delusions nor hallucinations, whereby behavior is not outside. It is also known as psychoneurosis or neurotic disorder and thus those suffering from it are said to be neurotic.

Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD)

 Is an anxiety disorder that is characterized by excessive, uncontrollable and often irrational worry. For diagnosis of this disorder, symptoms must last at least six months. This excessive worry often interferes with daily functioning, as individuals suffering GAD typically anticipate disaster, and are overly concerned about everyday matters such as healthissues, money, death,family problems, friendship problems, interpersonal relationship problems, or work difficulties.Individuals often exhibit a variety of physical symptoms, including fatigue, fidgeting, headaches, nausea, numbness in hands and feet,muscle tension, muscle aches, difficulty swallowing, bouts of difficulty breathing, difficulty concentrating, trembling, twitching, irritability, agitation, sweating, restlessness, insomnia, hot flashes, and rashes and inability to fully control the anxiety. These symptoms must be consistent and ongoing, persisting at least six months, for a formal diagnosis of GAD to be introduced.

Depressive Neurosis

Amental state of altered mood characterized by feelings of sadness, despair, and discouragement.depres´sive.

Obsessive–compulsive disorder (OCD)

Is an anxiety disorder characterized by intrusive thoughts that produce uneasiness, apprehension, fear or worry (obsessions), repetitive behaviors aimed at reducing the associated anxiety (compulsions), or a combination of such obsessions and compulsions. Symptoms of the disorder include excessive washing or cleaning, repeated checking, extreme hoarding, preoccupation with sexual, violent or religious thoughts, relationship-related obsessions, aversion to particular numbers and nervous rituals such as opening and closing a door a certain number of times before entering or leaving a room. These symptoms can be alienating and time-consuming, and often cause severe emotional and financial distress. The acts of those who have OCD may appear paranoid and potentially psychotic. However, OCD sufferers generally recognize their obsessions and compulsions as irrational and may become further distressed by this realization.

 Phobic neurosis

An anxiety disorder characterized by extreme and irrational fear of simple things or social situations; “phobic disorder is a general term for all phobias.

What are Phobias?

An extreme or irrational fear of or aversion to something.




What  can I contribute for the transformation of the  Philippines


 “The youth are the hope of our motherland”,that’s the words that came out from the great mind and mouth of Dr. JOse Rizal.It only show that we the new generation of  youth must act or must make a move to make a change, to promote equality ,to strengthen our human rights and of course to put in our mind that we’re all doing this for the sake of our beloved country, the Philippines. 


  As of now,seeing the youth of today,I can say that there still a chance for that very phrase to be true and to be acted by the youth of of today in order to make a transformation in the Philippines. I know inside my heart we have still those youth who are willing to give their best,their talents in different field,great ideas to innovate new great  things as contribution to the total transformation of the Philippines.And apparently I’m one of them.Like those youth who stand before that phrase , I also want to be part of that transformation not just because of fun but because it’s our motherland that needs us the most. Even in our very little thing we can still be part of that transformation just make it sure that what you did are good and you won’t hesitate to do it because of motherland, it all counts.In connection of me, I do really love writing,blogging and everything that involves letters,words,stuffs and beautiful ideas ,there i found my freedom and then I Came out into a great realization that by enhancing my talent in writing I can use it as a sword or just a matter of way to help motherland against invader just like what Rizal did, he used his pen as his swords and yeah.. it’s mightier than the real; swords and maybe by that I can say that, that would be my contribution for the transformation of the Philippines, and of course i will also set into my mind that I used to write because of my country the Philippines not for the fame. 


Chapter 6
In sunny Spain (1882-1885)
After finishing the 4
year of medical course In the University of Sto. Tomas, JoseRizal being disgusted with the antiquated method of instruction in this Dominican-owned university and the racial prejudice of Dominican professors against Filipinostudents, decided to complete his studies to Spain was a constitutional monarchyunder a written constitution which granted human rights to the people, particularlyfreedom of speech, freedom of the press, and freedom assembly. Aside from thisostensible reason, he had another reason, which was more important than merelycompleting his studies in Spain this was his “secret mission”.
Rizal’s Secret mission
 This mission whom Rizal conceived with approval of his order brother Paciano wasto observe keenly the life and culture, Languages and customs, industries andcommerce, and government and laws of the European nations in order to preparehimself in the mighty task of liberating his oppressed people from Spanish tyranny. This was evidenced in his farewell letter which was delivered to his parents shortlyafter his departure for Spain.
Secret Departure for Spain
Rizal’s departure for Spain was kept secret to avoid detection by the Spanishauthorities and the friars. Even his own parents did not know. Before his secret hewrote a farewell letter for his beloved parents and another one for his sweet heartLeonor Rivera-both delivered shortly after he sailed away. On May 3, 1882, Rizaldeparted on board the Spanish steamer
bound for Singapore. With tearsin his eyes and gloom in his heart, he gazed at the receding skyline of Manila.
During the voyage to Singapore he carefully observed the people and things onboard the steamer. There were sixteen passengers, including himself. The shipcaptain Donato Lecha from Asturias Spain befriended him. To while away thetedious boredom of sea voyage Rizal played chess with his fellow passenger whowere much older than he. He defeated them many times for he was a good chessplayer. On May 8, 1882, while the steamer was approaching Singapore Rizal saw abeautiful island. Fascinated by its scenic beauty, he remembered “Talim Island withsusong dalaga”. The following day the Salvadora docked at Singapore. Rizal landedregistered at Hotel Dela Paz, and spent two days on sight seeing soiree of the citywhich was colony of England. He saw the famous botanical garden the beautifulBuddhist temple the busy shopping district and the statue if sir Tomas StanfordRaffles (founder of singapore).

From Singapore to Colombo
In Singapore Rizal transferred to another ship Djemnah a French steamerwhich left Singapore for Europe on May 11. It was a larger and cleaner vessel whichcarried more passengers. Rizal attempted to converse with his fellow passengers inFrench but to his surprise and embarrassment he found out that his book Frenchcould not be understood so that he had to speak in mixed Spanish-Latinsupplemented by much gesticulations and sketching on paper. On May 17 theDjemnah reach point Galle a seacoast town in southern Ceylon (Sri Lanka). Rizalwas unimpressed by this town. On his travelled diary he wrote: “The generalappearance of point Galle is picturesque but lonely and quite and at the same timesad.” The following day the Djemnah weighed anchor and resumed the voyagetowards Colombo, the capital of Ceylon. After a few hours of sailing he reached thiscity on the same day. He delightful scribbled on his diary: “Colombo is morebeautiful smart and elegant than Singapore Point Galle and Manila.”
First Trip to Suez Canal
From Colombo the Djemnah continued the voyage crossing the Indian Oceanto the café of Guardafui, Africa. For the first time, Rizal sighted the barren coast of Africa, which he called an “inhospitable land but famous.” The next stop over-inAden-Rizal went ashore to see the sights. He found the city hotter than Manila.What impressed most was the beautiful moonlight which reminded im of calambaand his family. It took the Djemnah five days to traverse the Suez Canal. At PortSaid the Mediterranean terminal of Suez Canal Rizal landed in order to see theinteresting sight. He was fascinated to hear the multi racial inhabitants speakingbabel of tongues.
Naples and Marseilles
.From Port Said the Djemnah proceeded on its way to Europe. He visited thefamous chateau d’if, where Dantes hero of the count of Monte Cristo, wasimprisoned. Barcelona on the afternoon of June 15, Rizal left Marseille by the trainfor the last lap of his trip to Spain. After the passport inspection at Port-Bou Rizalcontinued his trip by rail finally reaching his destination- Barcelona on June 16,1882. Rizal’s first impression of Barcelona the greatest city of Cataluña and Spain’ssecond largest city was unfavorable. He thought that it’s ugly with dirty little innsand inhospitable residents because he happen to stay upon his arrival at dingy innsituated ion on unimpressive narrow street in the “town’s most ugly side” and thestaff and guest in this inn were indifferent to him. Later he changes his badimpression and came to like the city.

“Amor Patrio”
In progressive Barcelona Rizal wrote a nationalistic essay entitled “AmorPatrio” (Love of Country), his first article written on Spanish soil. He sent this articleto his friend in manila Basilio Teodoro Moran, publisher of Diariong Tagalog the firstManila bilingual news paper (Spanish and Tagalog), and his pen name was LaongLaan, and the Spanish text was the one originally written by Rizal in Barcelona. Thetagalong text was a translation made by M.H. Delpilar. The article caused quitesensations among the readers in the Philippines because of its nationalistic flavor.As in his price winning “Juventud Filipina.” Rizal in his “Amor patrio” urged himcompatriots to love there fatherland the Philippines. Publisher Basilio teodoro MoranDeply impressed by “Amor Patrio” congratulated Rizal and requested for morearticle. In response to his request Rizal wrote the second article for diariongtagalong entitled “Los Viajes” (Travels). His third article entitled “Revista de Madrid”(Review the Madrid), which he wrote in Madrid on November 29, 1882, was returnto him because the diariong tagalong had ceased publication for lack of funds.
Manila moves to Madrid
While sojourning in Barcelona, Rizal received sad news about the cholera thatwas ravaging Manila and the provinces. Many people had died and more were dyingdaily. Sad news from the Philippines was the chatty letter of chengoy recounting theunhappiness of Leonor Rivera, who was getting thinner because of the absence of love one.
Life in Madrid
On November 3, 1882, Rizal enrolled in university Central de Madrid in twocourses Medicine and Philosophy and letters. Aside from his heavy studies from theuniversity he studied painting and sculpture in the academy of fine arts of SanFernando. Rizal led a Spartan life in Madrid. He new that he came to Spain to studyand prepared himself for service to his fatherland. According, he rigidly budgetedhis money and time. On Saturday evening he visited the home of Don Pablo Ortiga YRey who lived with his son (Rafael) and daughter (Consuelo). Don Pablo had beencity mayor of Manila during the administration of the liberal governor general CarlosMa. De la Torre (1869-1871) and was promoted voice-president of the council of thePhilippines.
Romance with Consuelo Ortiga Y Perez
Rizal was not a handsome man. In physique he was neither dashing norimposing, for he was a shy small man-a few inches above fight feet in height. But hepossessed an aura of charisma due to his many-splendored talents and noblecharacter which made him attractive to young women. No wonder the prettier of Don Pablo’s Daughter fell in love with him. Rizal being a lonely man in foreigncountry far from his natal land was attracted to Consuelo’s beauty and vivacity. Heeven composed a lovely poem on august 22, 1883, dedicated to her. In this poemtitled
 A La Seniorita C. O. y P.
He expressed his admiration for her. Before his 


romance with Consuelo could bloosom into a serious affair he suddenly back out fortwo reasons: 1. He was still engaged to Leonor Rivera and 2. His friend and co-worker in the propaganda Movement Eduardo De Lete, was madly in love withConsuelo and he had no wish to break there friendship because of a pretty girl.
“They ask me for Verses.”
In 1882 shortly after his arrival in madrid Rizal joined the
Circulo Hispano-Filipino
a society of Spaniards and Filipinos. Upon the request of the members of this society he wrote poem entitled
“Me Piden Versos” 
(they ask me for verses).
Rizal as a lover of Book 
A favorite pastime of Rizal in Madrid was reading. Instead of gabling andflirting of women, as many young Filipinos did in the Spanish Metropolis, he stayedat home and read voraciously until midnight. Since early child hood he liked to read.Rizal economized on his leaving expenses and with the money he saved, hepurchased book from a second hand book store owned by a certain senior Roses.He was able to build a fair-sized private library.
Rizal’s First Visit to Paris
During his first summer vacation in Madrid Rizal went to Paris sojourning inthis gay capital of France from June 17, to August 20, 1883. Unlike ordinary touristwhose main interest in visiting countries is to see a beautiful sight to enjoy themeselves in clubs and theater and o shop in souvenir items, Rizal improved his mind byobserving closely the French way of life and spending many hours at the museumsnotably the world famous louvre; the botanical garden especially the Luxembourgthe libraries and art galleries and the hospitals including the Laenec Hospitalwherehe observed Dr. Nicaise treating his patients and the Lariboisiere Hospital, where heobserved the examination of different diseases of women.
Rizal as a Mason
In Spain Rizal came in close contact with prominent Spanish liberal andrepublican Spaniard who was mostly mason. Rizal was impressed by the way theSpanish mason openly and freely criticizes the government policies and lambastedthe friars which could not be done in the Philippines. In due time in March 1883, he joined the Masonic longed called
in the Madrid his reason for becoming amason was to secure Freemasonry’s aid in his fight again the friars in thePhilippines. Since the friars used the catholic religion as ashield to entrenchthemselves in power and wealth and to persecute Filipino patriots. Later hetransferred to
lodged Solidaridad 
(Madrid), were he became a Master Mason on

November 15, 1890. Still later on February 15, 1892 he was awarded the diploma asa Master Mason by
Le Grand Orient de France
in Paris.
Financial Worries
After Rizal’s departure for Spain things turn for bad to worse in Calamba. Theharvest of rice and sugarcane failed on account of drought and locusts. But therecame in atime when a dreadful pest killed most of the turkeys. Due to hard times inCalamba, The monthly Alowance of rizal in Madrid were late in arrival and therewere times when they never arrived causing much suffering to him. At one timePaciano was forced to sell his younger brother’s pony in order to send money toMadrid.
Rizal’s salutes to Luna and Hidalgo
 The banquet on the evening of June 25, 1884 was sponsored by the Filipinocommunity to celebrate the double victory of the Filipino artist in the NationalExposition of Fine arts in Madrid. Speaking in sonorous Castilian, Rizal held hisaudience spell bound. He saluted Luna and Hidalgo as the two glories of Spain andthe Philippines whose artistic achievements transcended geographical frontiers andracial origin for genius. He also assailed with refine sarcasm the bigotry andblindness of a certain unworthy Spaniards. The magnificent speech of Rizal wasgreeted with wild ovations for seldom did the Spaniards hear such an oration fromthe lips of the brown Filipino which was in almost peerless in nobility of thought inSpain rhetoric in sincerity of feeling and in sonorous eloquence.
Rizal Involved in students demonstration
On November 20, 21, and 22, 1884, the serene city of Madrid exploded inbloody riots by the students of Central University. Rizal and other Filipino studentparticipated together with Cuban, Mexican, Peruvian, and Spanish student in thetumult. This student demonstration was caused by the address of Dr. MiguelMorayta, professor of history at the opening ceremony of the academic year onNovember 20, in which he proclaimed “the freedom of science and the teacher”.Such a liberal view was condemned by the catholic bishops of Spain who promptlyexcommunicated Dr. Morayta and those who applauded his speech. Theappointment of the new Rector intensified the fury of the student demonstrator.More student demonstration convulsed the city. Recounting the tumultuous riotingto his family in a letter dated November 26, 1884.
Studies Completed in Spain
Rizal completed his medical course in Spain. He was conferred the degree of licentiate in Medicine by the Universidad Central de Madrid on June 21, 1884. Thenext academic year (1884-85) he studied and passed all subjects leading to thedegree of Doctor of Medicine. Due to the fact however that he did not present the  

thesis did not require for graduation nor paid the corresponding fees was he notawarded his Doctor’s diploma. At long last Rizal completed his studies in Spain. Byobtaining the degree of Licentiate in philosophy and letters, he became qualified tobe a professor of Humanities in any Spanish university. And by receiving his degreeof licentiate in Medicine, he became a full-fledge physician, qualified to practiceMedicine because it was together with the licentiate and the philosophy and letters,good only for teaching purpose. Being the man of high intelligence and foresight heknew that with his brown color and Asian racial ancestry no friar owned university orcolleges in the Philippines would accept hi in its faculty staff.

“RUDE GUY” (precillo).

I am not supposed to go that way,
But still i did it anyway..
We’ve crossed our path
Have eye to eye contact.
He suddenly pulled me up,
Near on his body then he dance.
I never know what to do?
Except to let go..
But his arms were soo  strong 
To stop me from doing scape
Added by the arms of his classmates
That were also strong, 
That  brought me to my knees.
I tried to fight but i’m weak,
Can’t defeat them up in my own strength.
But then i still tried,
Til’ i able to get off from his arms and crowd!!!


It’s now 5:00 PM.And my mind still confused of those words that came out from his vocal chord.A knife like words, that if heard would surely hurt your inner most.But despite of those hurtful thoughts I’m still at his side,trying to forget all of those,believing that someday he straightly look at me and say words he unusually say…Maybe this is a wishful thinking and probably a mindless dreaming but if he swears to love me again I also swear to love him back again and again.:)..♥♥




                                                            #I SWEAR… :()

#4 of 35″

I lost my way
From the time you got away
That lead me to say
Sorry for the wrong things I’ve did ,baby.
But now you’re gone
Can’t imagine hot it broke down?
But the moment i look back 
Gives me pain that can’t bare up!.
And all i can do now is to take a step away
From you Baby.
And forget the past that has been end up
By both of us.
‘Cause this time we’re getting blurrier
And far away from making it clearer.
And day by day
I start to build up my way
That would lead me away
From where you are Baby
And i know someday
I’ll be fine and will be okay.
‘Cause i have now a better way
That would exactly bring out the new me.!
And i exactly find the new me
Far from the old me
And it’s because of you,really.
So thank’s for making me realize that,
I could be like this ,Baby
Better than, better than
The last time you know me.!

#3 of 35″




It was all said and done,
We broke up and gone.
Yah, it was so sad to each one
But it has to be done!

It has been a while for the hurt i feel
When i decided to broke and tore
Those promises of forever,
When we were still together.


Oh,what a shame ,what a rainy ending given to a perfect day.
So, just cry and say..
This happened cause a better one comes to your way.

And for the last time i hear you say my name,
Begging me to come back but then “We’re over!.


He always call to my phone
I don’t answered him cause it whats for?
I don’t want to hear his voice and all,
Cause it reminds me of days that were hurtful.



You know that we can never ever be together!
From the time that we broke up to each other.
So be strong, and wait for the right one
That’s so much better than the old one.


It was all said and done. was so sad to each one.

wrote by: #MAIRO

#2 of 35″

_mairo tidoy_


Fresh Morning breeze,noisy phone that beep
Reminding me of days,that are good and sweet
I’m seventeen years old,though know it all,
Yet,i have still to grow,to be part of all.


I am just somebody,who live my life my own way.
Trying to please everybody,yet i know it couldn’t be.
But i could be your something,
Could also be your Anything.


Figure outing the life I’ve live today,
Thinking who’d be part of it ,Baby.
Hoping that you are one of them,maybe
Cause it would surely complete my daily..!



And then you came in my life
Spin me round and round and it’s like
I couldn’t ask for anything, except
Your presence…


Fresh morning breeze,
Noisy phone that beep.